Time Alone.
It seems that the better my husband and I get in our separate recoveries, the more issues emerge in our marriage. Lately, we are each staking claims to my time.My husband is home alone, a lot. When he was using, it never seemed to matter to him that he was home so much by himself. He was busy being high, getting high, or figuring out how he could get high the next time. These days, though, it’s painful for him to be alone so much, and he wants me to help him fix it.Every day when I’m leaving, he quizzes me about where I’m going, what I’m doing, and when I’ll be back. Part of what he wants is me, as he’s lonely, but part of it also is my gadgets…my computer and my cell phone. Some of his loneliness is what leads him to be suspicious of me. He’s never questioned my fidelity before, but in …